‘Sex doctor? What do you do?’
We read columns in newspapers and watch advertisements on television where people seek sex advice and ask experts regarding sexual problems and dysfunctions.
Most of us have such queries or conditions that need to be addressed, and fortunately, there are experts in this forte. Sex doctors or sexologists are specialists in human sexuality and trained to offer advice and give treatment for the same.
Sexologists can work in many areas like clinics, research and academics where they share their expertise on the subject and solve many sex- related issues.
They study sexology which deals with the study of sexual behaviour in humans, as well as their sexual functions and interests. Clinical sexologists deal with diagnosis and cure of sexual concerns and problems.
They are not judgemental, imparting unbiased and practical solutions. They also use their wisdom and skillset to offer counselling to people to meet their goals and improve their lives.
In several cases, the sex doctor educates his patient to help him in identifying the problem, and the doctor creates a safe and unbiased environment to converse freely with the patient.
There are several sexual myths and delusions that exist in our heads which prevent us from speaking about sex in public. This ignorance breeds from the lack of education in our formative years and remains as a blotchy patch in our brain.
With time, knowledge is more accessible and all our questions can be answered within seconds with phones and laptops at our fingertips.
It is essential to know that sex experts exist and sexual dysfunctions can be professionally treated and improved.
People suffering from performance anxiety or stress can speak to these doctors and work on their mental health to reduce negative thoughts during intercourse.
Kund Freund was a remarkable theorist and research scientist who invented the penile plethysmograph which can detect an erection and it is still used today to assess pedophilia and hebephilia. There are several other scientists and researchers who have contributed in the field of sexology and whose works influence the works of sexologists today.
These experts are legally permitted to give pills and other medicines to cure sexual dysfunctions. They have permission to guide the patient’s sexual growth and manage difficulties.
Ignorance in the subject of sexual health and intercourse is upsetting as it is an integral part of our lives. There is no shame in seeking help and asking for guidance from a professional whose intention is to assist you and make you better. Ignoring these problems can have regrettable consequences and cause additional issues like cardiovascular diseases and infertility.
There have been numerous efforts in recent times that have shone a light on these professionals and appreciated their work. Many television shows and movies like ‘Sex Education’ and ‘Kinsey’ are based on sexologists and have spread awareness amongst the youth. They press on topics such as teenage pregnancy, protected sex, contraceptives, masturbation and thy bust sexual myths and controversies. Kudos to these efforts and we should continue to spread awareness about sex experts and consult them if needed to live healthier and more fulfilling lives.